Three quarters of families rely on older relatives for help around the home

With both parents in many families working full time, older family members are providing a significant level of support with 79% of families relying on them for help with DIY, childcare and cooking meals. That's 6.7 million grandparents saving families thousands of pounds each year in home help costs.

The survey showed that:

More than a third (39%) of grandparents regularly help with childcare.

Almost half (49%) help with occasional babysitting.

Nearly a quarter (23%) regularly do the school run.

43% of older people cook occasional meals for the family.

More than a third (36%) help with DIY.

More than a quarter (26%) help with the gardening.

Nearly one in five (18%) give driving lessons.

Nearly one third (30%) provide financial advice to their families.

Grandparents who look after their grandchildren during the school holidays help parents save a small fortune and remove the hassle of finding good-quality childcare. A typical family working full-time with two children would spend about £2,064 a year on holiday childcare.

This help is not just restricted to an occasional night of babysitting. More than half of grandparents who help out do so more than once a week: nearly a quarter (24%) do so several times a week and 9% on a daily basis. This is in addition to the 23% of grandparents who regularly do the school run.

Mark Kelly, director of Norwich Union Personal Finance, said: "With many parents working longer hours and facing long commutes to work, there is an increasing reliance on outside support but this can be expensive and difficult to organise. This is resulting in an increasing pressure on the wider family to provide help, with grandparents providing much of this support. Instead of paying substantial sums for a nanny or childcare centre, parents would prefer to lean on grandma and grand-dad to look after the kids in the comfort of their own home."

The Norwich Union Equity Release research also shows that older family members are providing essential help around the home. For example, more than four in ten (43%) provide help by cooking an occasional family meal, and almost a third (30%) play the role of financial adviser to their families.

Mark Kelly concludes: "It's clear that many families rely on the help of grandparents, but with an increasing number of grandparents forced to work into retirement, this valuable source of help may not be as readily available in the future."